That gay marriage thing again - the bible

Posted on May 13, 2004 by jason

Throughout the debate on gay marriage I have found that the overwhelming majority of those opposed to the idea do so based on religious grounds.  Some try to avoid the religious arguments by calling it a moral conviction, but this rings hollow when no one can provide a meaningful explanation of the moral arguments.  I've already covered the dynamics of the religious arguments (non-biblical arguments, that is) in the historical reference material, so I suggest, for those who have not read it yet, that you start by understanding the church's changing attitude about homosexuality throughout history before delving into the biblical material in this post.  It stands on its own in that, historically speaking, the church did not condemn homosexuality until the Inquisition — before which the church both practiced and accepted homosexuality even when it involved its own leadership.

But the religious arguments are generally based on the bible, yet those who so quickly throw scripture at the debate fail to understand (or do not care to admit) that the bible does not support their position.  If it does, there are a great many things in life which become equally sinful and, therefore, wrong.

Now, I don't mind folks having religious convictions based on the bible, but don't pick and choose which things you will ignore because you are alright with them and which ones you won't because they make you uncomfortable.  If you are going to use the bible as the basis for the argument, then you must accept the entire book and not just those portions which support a discriminatory point of view.

So grab your King James version of the bible and follow me through the scripture as I debunk the biblical arguments.

The favorite chapter folks like to use as the basis of their biblical argument against homosexuals is Leviticus 18:22.

Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.

Yet others either augment or replace that verse with Leviticus 20:13.

If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

As I mentioned in historical reference, it wasn't until the year 1197 that the bible was construed against homosexuals.  That homosexual sex was condemned by Leviticus did not seem to matter to clerics up to the Middle Ages.  They considered the Levitical proscription relating to homosexuals to be of the same category as the rest of the vast corpus of Levitical proscriptions: they were abolished, along with the requirement for animal sacrifice, by the atonement of Jesus.  It took the Inquisition to reverse that belief.

But if the Old Testament is to be forgotten because of Jesus, what about Paul's epistle to the Romans?  Romans 1:26-27 makes it clear, does it not?

For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

At first glance, it seems without contradiction — if the Old Testament reference in Leviticus can't be used, then the New Testament reference in Romans can.

But things are never that simple.  Paul didn't stop with homosexuality, yet people who argue this chapter and verse never bother to read the next several verses in which Paul also condemns a great number of people — even members of the church — via their activities.  Just read Romans 1:28-32.

And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient: Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

If Paul was right about homosexuals, he's also right about the rest of the list.  Don't pick and choose.

So, everyone is condemned to death.  Have you ever been proud of yourself?  Have you ever disobeyed your parents?  Have you ever broken a promise?  Have you ever been envious?  Have you ever told a lie?  Have you ever debated or argued?  Have you ever coveted something that someone else had?  Have you ever boasted?

For all of you who have done any of those things (and that would be everyone everywhere from every time), get in line with us gays because you're going to hell with us.

Well, that's what Paul said, and if you stick with the homosexual argument, you have to take the rest.

Lucky for you, it's felt that Paul had simply been a bit overboard in this regard.  Why?

As if the list above wasn't proof enough, perhaps it was because he also told women they could not speak or teach in church and to always be subservient to men when he wrote the following in I Timothy 2:11-12.

Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.  But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

Not convinced?  Then perhaps it was Paul's writings in I Corinthians 14:34-35.

Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.  And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.

If we are to accept Paul's writings in Romans about homosexuals, then we must equally accept his writings in I Timothy and I Corinthians about women.

In studying the writings of Paul throughout the New Testament, one cannot help but conclude that he was an unmarried, self serving, sexist, bigoted woman hater.  But, since he wrote nearly half of the New Testament, he must be right.  And if he's right, women may not ask questions of anyone but their husbands (meaning unmarried women are screwed) and they cannot speak in church — at all.

How many of those who use Romans to justify bigotry against homosexuality also practice Paul's teachings with regards to women?

But we're not done yet.

Let's assume for a moment that the story of Jesus doesn't negate the Old Testament commandments.  Under those circumstances, the Leviticus writings about homosexuality are inarguable.  Even I can admit that.  So Leviticus clearly defines homosexuality as a sin.

Surprisingly, it also says that eating any seafood that doesn't have fins and scales is a sin.  Do you eat shrimp?  Lobster?  Crab?  Oysters?  Shark?  Swordfish?  Squid?  Shall I go on?

Chapter 11 of Leviticus is replete with clear descriptions of what foods you can and cannot eat should you also use the book to proscribe homosexuality.

For example, Leviticus 11:9-11 covers what seafood you can eat.  Rather than attempt to list each and every possible animal, Moses paraphrased the list God gave him and instead chose to describe the "dos and don'ts" of seafood in this way.

These shall ye eat of all that are in the waters: whatsoever hath fins and scales in the waters, in the seas, and in the rivers, them shall ye eat.  And all that have not fins and scales in the seas, and in the rivers, of all that move in the waters, and of any living thing which is in the waters, they shall be an abomination unto you: They shall be even an abomination unto you: ye shall not eat of their flesh, but ye shall have their carcases in abomination.

Now, if Leviticus is to be used to justify an anti-gay argument and yet the very same book is disregarded when it comes to what seafood can be eaten, how is the apparent discontinuity explained?  Is it OK to pick and choose the parts we want to enforce while disregarding the parts we don't?

The arguments against homosexuality are quite limited so far as the bible is concerned, but the church has long held that they are clear and inarguable.

If we accept the Leviticus and Romans writings as the only proof needed to condemn homosexuality, then let's take a look through the bible for other things that we must adhere to.

The church long supported slavery, yet it cannot be reconciled with Exodus 21:16.

And he that stealeth a man, and selleth him, or if he be found in his hand, he shall surely be put to death.

But this verse directly contradicts Exodus 21:7 in which a man is given the right to sell his daughter into slavery so long as she does not toil like men.

And if a man sell his daughter to be a maidservant, she shall not go out as the menservants do.

Does the bible contradict itself in this regard, or is it OK to sell your daughter into slavery while not being OK to kidnap a man to sell into slavery?  Seems somewhat sexist, don't you think?  That theme seems to run through the whole book…

Another commandment from Exodus which apparently can be disregarded is chapter 23 verse 8.  Here Moses tells us we are not allowed to receive gifts.  There are no qualifications (as in you can accept a gift for your birthday or Christmas).

And thou shalt take no gift: for the gift blindeth the wise, and perverteth the words of the righteous.

But let's not stop there.

Exodus 35:2 tells us that anyone who works on the sabbath (or seventh day of the week) shall be put to death.

Six days shall work be done, but on the seventh day there shall be to you an holy day, a sabbath of rest to the Lord: whosoever doeth work therein shall be put to death.

Does anyone cook every day of the week?  Does anyone work on the weekends?  How many people truly do not work — at all — on the seventh day (whichever day you decide that is for you)?

Leviticus 11:7-8 tells us that the pig is an unclean animal and anyone who eats it or touches its skin is condemned.  Pork chops, anyone?

Matthew 5:29-30 tells us to remove any body part that causes us to sin.  If you can't help looking at someone else's wife, you must remove your eyes.  If you can't help but take the five-finger-discount every time you go to the grocery store, you must cut off both hands.  Yet no religion practices this very clear commandment.

Mathew 5:48 tells us to be perfect.  I don't have to point out that no one has accomplished that one, so no one ever has or will go to heaven.

Matthew 23:8-10 tells us that no man should be called Rabbi, father or master.  I can think of a few religions that fail the test with that one.

Deuteronomy 22:5 tells us that women should not wear clothing that pertains to a man and men should not wear clothing that pertains to a woman.  Puts a new spin on women's slacks, doesn't it?

Romans 13:8 tells us that we should never owe anything to anyone.  There goes the new home loan and the car loan and the credit cards and — well, you get the point.

I Corinthians 11:1-16 tells us that men shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't have short hair.  Just take a look around the next time you're in church and tell me if that's being followed.

II Corinthians 6:14-18 tells us that religious people should separate themselves from non-religious people and should live wholly separate lives away from those who don't believe.  Now where's that Baptist apartment complex again?

I Timothy 2:9 tells us that women should dress modestly and are not allowed to wear jewelry (specifically pearls, gold or other costly array).  That means no wedding rings, but Paul told you not to get married anyway.

Proverbs 22:24-25 tells us that men should not be friends with angry men.  Since every man has been angry before, we're all screwed.

But here's the real kicker for all the bible-thumpers out there.

Proverbs 23:4 tells us "Labour not to be rich."  This is the surest way to tell if someone is going to hell or not — are they making money?

I think I've successfully shown that the religious argument has to be thrown out.  In fact, while arguing for the gay marriage movement, I've accidentally shown that every Christian on the planet needs to read the bible to learn what it really says.  You either accept the whole thing or you shut up.  Don't throw selected excerpts at me if you're not prepared to demonstrate that you live a life fully compliant with the whole damn book.

My point in this exercise was to demonstrate that, at least so far as the bible is concerned, you cannot use it to argue against gay marriage.  Since you don't follow everything it says, you cannot pick and choose what you will follow and try to force those selections on others.

So far as the same-sex marriage debate is concerned, there is no biblical argument.  If the story of Jesus' atonement did indeed nullify the directives of the Old Testament, then Leviticus cannot be used as an argument against homosexuality.  Unless all of Paul's teachings are adhered to, then Romans cannot be used as an argument.

Ultimately the bible is not a discretionary book — you either believe in and practice the entire book (or, at least, the entire Old or New Testament), or you should refrain from picking the parts you want and trying to force them on others.

Is that not the apex of hypocrisy — for the church to disregard those directives which seem inconvenient while trying to enforce the parts it deems appropriate?

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6 Responses to “That gay marriage thing again - the bible”

  1. jenny

    16. May, 2004

    I guess what I mainly came away from this with was a real sense that christianity, at least as it is said to be practiced by the ’scriptures’ is some sort of straight white guy religion, bubba-ism. It seems that it’s not just gay folk here but women and anybody else they took to bashing. Actually women get it worse, and the southern baptists in a recent convention took a strong line about women being subservient, etc. Which is a crock of shit. So having more or less lost that battle the christians are now out to get gays (they lost the battle against people of color, women, slavery, who’s left right?). They keep trying to take on evolution, but a little scientific information will take care of that. If you really want to take what the bible teaches, it says to stop going after stuff, back off the materialism, be nice to other people regardless and stop being greedy. Most other religions teach that too. It’s basically a decent precept for getting along with each other and the rest of the species on the planet. It’s also a radical concept in practice, just try it. What I find hiliarious is America’s blantant consumerism and hyped marketing of everything and worship of money all while paying lip service to christianity. I guess I just don’t buy into that. But I suspected something fishy about the church even as a kid, I mean, what was said from that guy up there in the pulpit and what your parents were talking about (did you see what so & so was wearing? did you hear that so & so is … whatever) and if you asked some tough questions, well you got what was called then a ‘cop-out’ answer, basically bogus. Bullshit. And hell, I knew that just because I was born female didn’t mean I was second-class, but women were treated as property until very recently, we had few rights as humans (not just the right to vote, but also to obtain credit/loans, to own land, to own a business, to be employed as other than teachers or nurses). I saw this in my own family, my maternal Grandmother was in many ways considered like a valuable brood-mare. I think that will hit a familiar note in your family too. That’s why incest still isn’t really regarded as the horror that it is. Same thing with people of color, only at least as female you can sometimes disguise yourself. As a gay person, we all learn to ‘pass’ when we have to. When your skin color is wrong, that’s kinda hard.

    But back to the original thread, I really didn’t mean to derail things. To use the bible as some basis for not permitting gays to marry is mingling church and state where they don’t belong. And where the framers of our Constitution did not intend them to co-mingle. Not all straights get married in a church either, or have a religious caste to the ceremony in anyway, whole bunchs just go to the JP. But that wedding is valid whereas for us to get married it isn’t, or wasn’t until recently (and as of midnight tonight in Massachusetts it’s happening!, yes, midnight for some places, not 8 am). Yet the protection that marriage allows to the spouse in the event of death (especially) is a right and protection that is due EVERYONE, regardless of color, sexual orientation, gender, new gender, whatever. I guess marrying my cat might be a problem, but they are in my will. =) It has nothing to do with religion. Fortunately there are lawyers working that through now, it is a legal and civil right for a free people.

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  2. jason

    18. May, 2004

    I intend to cover the benefits of marriage in an upcoming portion of this series, so I won't cover that now, but I do agree that marriage and its benefits should be available to everyone equally — not a select subsection of society.  Equal protection under the law and all…

    As for the bible and how it relates to things, you're right in that it's a sexist book.  It amazes me that so few people realize it.  They continue thumping the bible and telling people they must adhere to the doctrine within, yet that very doctrine would take our society in the wrong direction — advocating slavery (even of familiy members), sexism, bigotry, segregation, poverty, and so on.

    But it's equally important to remember when it was written.  That's the explanation.  That's how women priests have been justified — times have changed and women's roles in society have changed.  Yet people can't see beyond that statement to understand that the bible itself is not written in stone and is not to be taken literally.  It's like a guidebook which uses metaphors in an attempt to define morality.

    As time marches on, our morality changes.  Slavery, segregation, witch hunts, burning people at the stake, animal sacrifice — these are all things which, in time, have been discarded by religion, despite the bible preaching such things, as they were found to be unacceptable to society at large.  We grew and learned that what we had been taught as children wasn't entirely true or acceptable.

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  3. jenny

    18. May, 2004

    hmmmm I’m not sure I’m entirely comfortable with that statement that ‘our morality changes’. Here’s why - the scripture-based christians (and you recall I have some personal experience with same) don’t want any discussion
    of morality changing, that’s exactly what they do not want, what they rail against. I like better telling them fine, then let’s re-institute slavery and witch-hunts. One of their big opines is that morality has fallen to the point of no return. And some of them still seem to think that women as property (and people of color too) is just fine. But I think we arrive at the same destination here, after all, I’m pretty sure we are arguing the same POV. I just tend to throw out the baby and the bathwater, the whole thing is bogus to me so I pitch it all.

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  4. jason

    21. May, 2004

    The truth is that our morality does indeed change.  Had you and I both lived 100 years ago, our morality would be different than it is today — even if nothing else about us changed.  That's because our morality is as much a shared experience as it is personal.  The environment in which we're raised has a direct influence on how we develop and what we think regardless of who we are independent of that.  That's just the way we as humans work.

    For example, slavery was widely accepted for a long time, then society's collective morality began to change.  It didn't happen overnight, but people followed the direction society moved in.  Even the staunchest supporters of slavery were forced to accept the direction the country was moving in.  Once that happened, the idea of supporting slavery began to fade and, eventually, it's been reduced to a fringe of society which isn't worthy of discussion (can anyone say KKK?).

    The fact is that morality does change.  Every individual goes through life with a moral code which is adaptive and responsive.

    In the case of the church, however, the change is slower because it's based on religious dogma that is taught with eternal condemnation as the prize for non-compliance.  It takes the church (any church) a long time to catch up with society (although there are times that the church gets ahead of society; look at the Episcopal gay bishop [despite the problems associated with it, that move by the church is still considered a step ahead of society]).

    And I don't necessarily think that religion in and of itself is a bad thing.  It does teach a morality which, so long as it's not taken word for word, can be the basis of fine, upstanding citizens.  Be kind to your fellow man, do not bring harm to others, do what you can for mankind, be polite and caring, and so on.  The foundation of religion is a moral code which most humans should learn, but, for most people, the religious part gets in the way.

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  5. jenny

    23. May, 2004

    I think what gets in the way is that alot of “religious” folk want everyone else to be perfect. And they’ll tell you just how to do that. Religion is fine in theory, but in practice it most often gets distorted into “I’ll fix you. Or you should do this because or else” …. I’m perfectly OK with treating others as you would like to be treated, but it doesn’t take a religion to get that message across. Religions can and do teach many valuable ideas and moral guidelines, but they aren’t the only way to arrive at that destination. I guess I’m just leery of most institutions and most organized entities, which doesn’t mean I won’t belong to some things, or that I won’t work toward goals within those insitutional guidelines, but I remain cynical.

    While I do hear what you are saying about morality changing, remember that even before the Civil War in this country, for example, there were people who felt that slavery was wrong. Flat out wrong. I’ll have to think about that a bit, as a sense of morality being flexible and attuned to the times in which one lives, but there have always been people who stood up for different POVs, despite the prevailing morality. You and I are actually doing that right now, the prevailing morality is against gay marriage, against legalization of most drugs, against alot of environmental precepts (christianity itself seems to run counter to respect for the planet), against a woman’s right to an abortion (although the very same people will complain loudly about undisciplined children rather than encourage birth control)

    yes, the episcopal church has taken a very forward view on homosexuality, and that church is splitting as a result of that. My father is very much a part of the conservative, adher to ’scripture’ segment, he is working actively with others to break the church away from the ‘damned liberals’ as he refers to them. Oddly enough he’s come around to the idea of women priests………..and has a painting in their apartment of the Temptation of Eve…… ? what the fuck?

    I guess I’m trying to spit out that my concepts of the guide to living a moral life, as I see it, did not come from the church. I was raised ‘in the church’ as you were, but it never really jivved with me. I got alot of my beliefs from poetry and literature, from reading widely (as you did and do) and observation. I can name books, poets, writers, some teacher in school that influenced me, but not one religious oriented person/activity. Maybe that’s selective memory and I’ll think on it a bit, but some of that I have thought on, quite a bit.

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  6. jason

    24. May, 2004

    One thing to remember about your Civil War/slavery example is that those areas which were against slavery by that time had, just 50 years before, been fully in support of the practice.  It's a perfect example of changing morality.

    As for the overall religious idea, I've learned through my own exploration of religion that I don't need it to be a good person.  My own morality is often of a higher quality than that of religion because I do not practice church-sanctioned hatred, discrimination or hypocrisy.

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